英語(yǔ)聽(tīng)力入門第一冊(cè)原文及答案

1、1Stepbystep3000book2Unit1Part1原文原文Part1WarmingupATape:ThePterFamilyMrWilliamPterisveryold.Hes87.MrsCatherinePteris80.MrPterisfromWales.JohnPterMaryarebrothersisterJohnPteris53hesalawyer.HiswifeSusanis48shesanarchitect.Ja

2、mesPterJoanLeearecousins.JamesPteris24JoanLeeis17.BTape:HereareafewgeneralideasIbelievehelpmakeamarriagewk:1.Goondateswitheachother.Renewromanticfeelingsbyspendingspecialtimetogether.2.Beasspecificasyoucanwhenyoucomplain

3、makearequestofferpraise.3.Whenstressedbyfatigueyourowninsecuritiesimagineyouyourpartnerinafoxholesurroundedbydanger.Insteadofstrikingoutatyourpartnerfindawaytoprotectthepartnership!4.Whenyoufeel“distant“talkaboutitwithyo

4、urpartner.5.Beassuredthatpartnersinallmarriagessometimesgettiredirritabledistracted.Wktogethertoundersteachother.6.Respecteachother.Leaveifdangerexists.Findprofessionalhelpifphysicalsexualemotionalverbalabuseoccurs.7.Fig

5、htto“underst“notto“win.“CTape:Havingbeenmarriedfmethan40yearsIcanattesttotruthofthefollowingstatement:ToexcelintheartofdomesticargumentonemustmastertheartoflosingModernpsychologistsaretakenwiththe“l(fā)oselose“solution.Butin

6、marriagesuccessresidesmein“l(fā)oselose“solutions.Outofthesebothpartiescanwin.Fintheloveconfigurationlosinggivesagiftthatalwaysreturns.Theissuesthatpeopleargueovermostinmarriagesuchashowtospendmoneyoftenarenttherealones.Thek

7、eyissueis:whoisgoingtobeincontrolWhenIwasyoungermyneedtocontrolaroseoutoffearalackoftrustinsecurity.ThedayIfinallyrealizedIneednttocontrolmywifethatindeedIoughtnottocontrolherthatIcouldntcontrolherthatifItrytoIwoulddestr

8、oyourmarriagewasthedayourmarriagebegan.WhatisitwewantmostfromamarriageTolovebeloved.Tobehappysecure.TogrowtodiscoverAloverelationshipisthegardeninwhichweplantcultivateharvestthemostpreciousofcropsourownselfinwhichourspou

9、seisprovidedthesamerichsoilinwhichtobloom.Wecannotobtainwhatwewantunlessourpartneralsogetswhatheshewants.Soremember:ifyouwanttofeellovedrespectedgiveupcontrol.Unit1Part1答案答案PartIA878053482417PartIB1.spendingspecialtimeto

10、gether.2.specificcomplainrequestpraise.3.fatigueinsecuritiesfoxholestrikingoutprotect.4.distant5.allmarriagesWktogetherounderst6.Respectdangerprofessionalphysicalverbal3B:YesIdoinfactIthinkwecanprobablylaytheblamefthehig

11、hpercentageofdivcesitsathirdIthinknowisntitIthinkoneinthreepeoplegetdivced.ProbablyasfarasIcanseeitthereasonisthattheygointomarriageintoarelationshipwithaveryromanticviewoflovewhichIthinkhasbeencreatedbythepopsongsbyallt

12、helovestiesbytheBarbaraCartlnovelsetc.thatyoungpeopleread.Reallyyoumeetsomeoneyoufallinlovethatsititsthebeginningtheylivehappilyeverafter.Ithinkthatstheproblembecausepeoplejustexpectthatitsnotlikethat.A:Sowhatisitdoyouth

13、inkthatreallysustainsarelationshipthatkeepsarelationshipgoingB:WellIthinkyouhavetodifferentiatebetweenfallinginlovewithsomebodywhichIseeasmesuperficiallovingsomebodywhichIseeasadeeperemotiononethatperhapslasts.Fallinginl

14、oveissuperficialattractionbeingattractedtosomebodyphysicallyhavingfuntogetherwhereaslovingsomebodyIthinkisanemotionthatgrowsitcomeswithsharedexperiencesperhapsenjoyingdoingthesamethingstogethersharedhobbiessharedinterest

15、ssufferingtogetheraswellgoingthroughthebadtimeshelpingeachothersupptingeachother.IthinkallthatneedstimetogrowIdcallthatloveIthinkthatswhatmakesarelationshiplast.CTapeFyearsmenwomenhavebeengettingmarried.Theysaytheirweddi

16、ngvowswhichbringthemtogetherasone.Theypromisetolovecherisheachotheruntildeathdothempart.Whenamanawomangetmarrieditisoneofthebiggestdecisionstheywillmakeinlife.Amanmayawomanbecauseheinhisowneyesseesherasthe“justright“wife

17、fhim.Everymanhashisowndefinitionofwhatthe“justright“wifeis.Finstancethemillionairemanthepomanbothmaydefinetheir“justright“wifeaccdingtoherphysicalqualities.Amillionairemaydescribehis“justright“wifeasmingbeautifulsexyinte

18、lligentwelldeveloped.Ontheotherhapomanmaydefinehis“justright“wifeaspleasingattractivedesirableknowledgeableshapely.Bothmendescribetheir“justright“wifebythesamephysicalqualitiesbutusedifferentwds.Althoughsomemendefinethe“

19、justright“wifebyherphysicalqualitiesothermendescribetheir“justright“wifebyherathleticqualities.Fexampletheoutdosmanmaydefinehis“justright“wifeasawomanwholovestofishtocamptohunttowaterskiwhereastheinsidesptsmanmaydefinehi

20、s“justright“wifeasawomanwhoenjoyswatchingfootballbasketballbaseballwrestling.Bothofthesemendefinetheir“justright“wifebyhersptsqualitiesbutintwodifferentatmospheres.Menfromallnationalitiesalsohavetheirdefinitionofthe“just

21、right“wife.FexampletheItalianmandescribeshiswomanasawomanwhostssixfeetoneinchtallwithblondehairblueeyeswhoiswelldevelopedintheupperptionofherbody.OntheotherhtheFrenchmanmaydescribehisidealwomanasawomanwhostsonlyfivefeett

22、hreeincheswithbrownhairgreeneyeswhoismoderatelybuilt.OthernationalitiessuchastheGermanman.theSpanishmanmaydefinetheir“justright“wifeasawomanwithstyle.TheGermanmanmaydescribehis“justright“wifeasawomanwholikestodriveexpens

23、ivesptscarsawomanwhovisitsadifferentfeigncountryeverymonthwearsonlythemostexpensivedesignerclothing.ButtheSpanishmanmaydefinehis“justright“wifeasawomanwhoenjoysgivingdinnerpartieseveryweekendwearingalotofjewelrydrinkinge